So often we believe healthy, happy relationships are created by magic.
We see people in a great relationship and wonder what their key is.
It is simple really.
So often we forget exactly how different men are from women. Hormonal differences... Attitudes... Physical capacity...
When you get right down to it, a happy, strong marriage that will last an eternity — or at least "until death do you part" — is 100% values based.
Each partner has a strong sense of mutually significant values.
Because of this common, easily communicated sense of value, they tend to have common visions and expectations for they way they want to live.
They instinctively KNOW each other's HOT buttons, and how to push them.
One of the great mysteries of married life is how some people can become incredibly happy with each other and grow old and successful together — where others are at constant odds with their partners and see life as a continuous series of "glass half empty" wars leading to unhappiness and despair.
The question becomes, "Is the key to success in finding the right person, or finding the right inspiration?"